After dedicating yourself to your healing journey, those hat have done a certain amount of shadow work will not allow you to play in their faces. They are full of love but are not stupid. Many see them as weak, or gullible when in actuality they are walking tower moments for those of low frequency and vibration. Those people will be non purposefully mirror to those on a lower vibrations and frequencies all of your unhealed inner traumas or things that you personally overlook assuming that no one knows.
This is a perspective. This is not a claim to be the only perspective but this one does exist.